Pacar jealous over something that is so small matter

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  1. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Halo.
    Gini, my boyfriend got jealous over a petty thing. You know why he was jealous of? He was jealous because aku tuh megang jari temen aku yang sakit terkena besi. I helped him to take the besi out of his skin. My friend is a man though. Come on lah, aku tuh nolongin temen aku.
    Then, he texted me that, aku tuh harus jaga batas pergaulan walaupun dia tuh temen. He said that he felt so down, disappointed over these.Yang aku geregetan is that he assumed that I like my friend. Seriously?! DUH! Okay, I admit that I was wrong as I touched his fingers but i was helping a friend that got hurt. So, aku tuh males mau fight terusan over petty thing, aku ngalah aja deh. Say sorry at the end of the conversation. Our conversation was over whatsapp. Males banget mahu call, I am afraid that he would cry. HAHAA.

    Aku tuh bener nya geli deh, it is too cringe. I just could not take it because it is too cringe. Jealous over something that is too petty.

    I get it boyfriend would get jealous over something that is so small but I think its too much. I mean to say sorry over something that is so petty is just too cringe.

    Any advise< I would take it positively.

    Thanks for reading over.
     
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  2. Talita

    Talita Well-Known Member

    Little little i can hahaha...

    Skip!

    Menurut aku ya mungkin dia cemburu.km misalkan liat dia megang cewek lain misalnya cewek itu jarinya berdarah ketusuk duri mawar haha dan cowok isap tuh darah d tangannya kesel gak?pasti keselkan tapi untuk cowokmu it biasa hanya untuk bikin cewek itu pendarahan d tangannya berhenti (pendarahan?omegat!)

    Kalau dia cemburu berarti dia sayang.kalau km dapat cowok sifatnya kayak aku,mati lu di cuekin mulu.haha..
     
  3. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Thanks.
     
  4. Shadow

    Shadow Well-Known Member

    Waktu kamu jelaskan ke pacar kalau kamu cuma menolong teman. Harusnya pacarmu bisa ngerti, bukannya malah cemburu.

    Kecuali kalau si "teman kamu" ini sengaja melukai dirinya biar "dipegang" (dibantu) sama kamu. Baru pacarmu boleh cemburu, tapi kalau gitu harusnya marah ke "teman kamu" dong bukan ke kamu nya.

    Beri dia pengertian lagi (kalau kamu cuma bantu teman aja), dan ga macem2 (selingkuh,dll). Kalau dia masih cemburuan, kamu ikut aja jadi cemburuan juga. Biar pacarmu tau kalau dicemburui berlebihan itu ga enak.
     
  5. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    For me, it is impossible my friend sengaja melukai dirinya. And absolutely he is not interested in me. We are just friend. Lagi pula, pacarku sama teman aku ini sahabat banget. So impossible.

    Hahaaha, a sweet revenge of jealousy would be a great idea. Although I am not the type of person that gets jealous easily. Worth a try though.

    Thanks.
     
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