Need advise on love

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  1. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Is it normal if we didn't text/chat everyday? Basically our everyday communication via text is not that good. I think that texting is waste of time. Sometimes, I would think on what to text him. I don't know what to text. We see each other everyday since we work at the same place exclude saturday and sunday though. Is that a solid reason not to text him?

    Since now is Ramadhan, I really think that he did not "mesra" to me like usual. Is it because of ramadhan? Jaga mata, Jaga hati? I don't know. Hmmmmm.

    I did texted him few days before to ask him on our berbuka puasa. I recommended 1 restaurant to him. He did replied to me like this;

    " Wow, that looks amazing, lets eat there nanti"

    That's it. End our conversation. I don't know what to respond to him anymore. Our testing just went for 1 minute then bye. Is it normal?

    please advise everyone.

    thanks.
     
  2. Astra Jingga

    Astra Jingga Active Member

    With texts, you can't really express yourself, texts aren't your face, texts aren't your voice, texts are only the messages came off of your fingers. And although they might symbolized your true feelings, fingers and letters have no expressions to show, to the people who happen to see or read them.

    Texts aren't that useless however, it can be useful too sometimes but, only sometimes, on emergency cases or when you need to maintain a long distance relationship.

    But from your story, you're not that far away from him, and you don't seem to be in such a distress situation as well. So... Why chose text over a direct conversation?
     
  3. Shadow

    Shadow Well-Known Member

    Normal. Kalau menurut saya...

    Kan ada orang yg lebih nyaman komunikasi dengan sms/chat/tpl. Dan ga nyaman kalau tatap muka/ketemuan langsung...

    Berarti ada juga orang yg lebih nyaman komunikasi dengan ketemu langsung. Tapi ga nyaman chat/sms/telepon...
     

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