A lady who needs advise - Love advise

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  1. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Bagaimana hendak memikat hati seorang lelaki yang patah hati? He has not move on. How to make him see me? I've done everything however I never want to talk about his ex. I hate to say his ex name. Aku tahu, I'm too possessive although he is not mine yet. But I could not stand if someone sebut sebut nama ex nya. What I know is his ex hurt him so bad. I never want to ask why. I can see we have spark though. I have not confess yet, I am afraid he would reject me.

    Saya buntu, confused with my feelings. how to start? Aku suka sama dia tetapi would he feel the same too? That's a question I would want to know the answer now. But how to ask? Aku perempuan, I would never want to take the first step, he should right? Tapi aku yang suka dia dulu. HOW? again my question how? hmmmm.
     
  2. Feklisu (Fe)

    Feklisu (Fe) Member

    Ijinkan dia dulu untuk move on, semua butuh waktu. Jangan egois memikiran perasaan kamu dulu.
    Hibur dia dengan be yourself, jangan jadi wanita yang sebelumnya.
    Hibur dia dengan cara mu yang membuat kamu beda dari wanita itu, sesekali jangan ungkit wanita sebelumnya jikalah kamu bersamanya cari saja topik yang humoris.
    Semangatkan dia jangan liat ke belakang waktu masih panjang.
     
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  3. leo_kambing

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  4. Petrichor

    Petrichor Member

    Just let him sit back and relax for a little while. Do not push him too hard, or he will be completely run away from you. I know that being a woman (in this country) doesn't give you more options.

    It doesn't matter now whether he likes you or not. Always be at his side, but don't stand too close to make him still comfortable. That's all you have to do. Be patient. Only time will tell how he really feels about you. Good luck.
     
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  5. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Yea, to think about, I'm too egoistic. I need to have patience. Thank you Feklisu.
     
  6. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    haha, but I want him to like me. I know I am selfish. However, I can make use of your advise, Thanks Petrichor.
     

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