Halo, Bagaimana hendak memikat sesorang lelaki? It is so hard to flirt with this guy. Can't he see me? Am I not that pretty? - hmm secara jujur I am pretty. Bukan narcissistic, I just have that confidence that I am pretty. He is kinda guy yang pendiam. Boleh tahan alim nya, sembahyang tidak pernah tinggal. He is not that tall, also not that short. He is fair, I could say. Broken hearted with one lady who was actually his first love, the reason why he could not trust woman again - SAD but truth, this is why its hard to get this guy's heart. I've been trying like flirting, he response to it which I think a positive sign. But I need him to make another move. Tidak mungkin, aku terus saja yang memulakan. I know sabar is the key. <3
Sepertinya kamu juga harus sabar menhadapi diri kamu sendiri. Hal yang wajar jika kamu masih 'kaget' dan masih sulit memahami kenyataan yg tidak sesuai dengan pemahaman kamu sebelumnya. Sebisa mungkin hindari pemikiran2 'self centre', cobalah untuk lebih bisa menyimak dan jadi pendengar yang baik. CMIIW
Yang pertama kamu haruslah seorang Wanita hehehe Kamu bilang kan dia punya pengalaman buruk sama cinta pertamanya Coba pastiin dia masih takut wanita atau engga Coba kalo ngobrol tatap matanya Kali dia jadi gugup mungkin dia masih takut deketin wanita, Siapa tau dia Kayak gue skrg, kalo di tatap matanya sama wanita ga berani natap balik dan gugup, karena punya pengalaman buruk soal wanita Ini dari pengalaman pribadi aja jadi blum tentu benar
Sad But True.... Oh, that's Metallica Anyway, loosing first love-especially in a 'not so nice' way is hard, believe me I know. But I believe it doesn't mean he's un-approachable (people change, btw, and deep inside, sooner or later he'll know & admit he needs a 'friend'). But in this case, any form of frontal approach must be avoided at all costs or you'll loose him. You're right; you must be sabar. One thing you can do, for example; is to try to put yourself in a situation where you and him must be together for a period of time (if possible), hence gives you the time you need to at least to try to get loser to him. Or if that's so impossible anyway, just try to be always on his sight at the very least. Try to always be there to help him, or have a chat or two with him... Be his friend as best as you can, be strong, and be... sabar. Good luck.
Bad news, yeah I am such a self centre, I need to change that. i'll take note on your advised. Thanks.
Like I said, boleh tahan alim. hahaha. I am trying to be that lady. Insha Allah, one day.. istiqomah.
Ofcourse harus wanita. I am a woman, tulen. haha Nope I don't think so, I've tried this, dia tatap mata aku balik and said that I have big eyes. (p/s, aku flirted, aku winked kearah dia) He is not afraid of wanita, he just could not trust woman.
Frontal approach? I don't get this. Do you mean directly flirting? I am trying to get closer to him which I think its good vibe. However, can I provoke him? By saying a good things about other men? My intention is to know if he is jealous.
